July 10, 2010

Cleveland's Energy Creates its Troubles

WOW! CLEVELAND WHAT ARE YOU DOING TO YOURSELF?

Whether or not you follow basketball or the 2010 Free Agency - there are lessons for those of us who aspire to raise our consciousness and live big, purposeful lives.

At risk of fueling the story, I feel this is such an important opportunity for our collective growth I am going to address a few issues from the 2010 Free Agency, specifically, Lebron James and Cleveland, Cleveland Cavaliers and the Dan Gilbert response.

There are so many examples of how lack programming and low energy play out in real life I hardly know where to begin.

So let me start with those people who said they couldn't care less about the 2010 Free Agency.  You know the one's I'm talking about….

Not the folks who truly don't care because they don't know a thing about basketball or aren't really into sports.  

It's those people who put so much energy behind their "I could care less" response.  The ones who feel superior to those of us who are following a so called icon.  The one's who roll their eyes at you in judgement.

Why all the investment in "not caring" if you really don't care.

Because your underlying belief system is controlling your response!

This is lesson number one.  If your response is full of emotion, especially when the words coming out of your mouth are saying you don't care…you might be responding with some belief system about the event and not really about the situation at hand.

You are not in the present moment.  You are not Switzerland.  You have low energy attached to your "not caring". 

What is fueling your emotions will give you clues to your lack, poverty, illness, struggles and drama.

The thoughts that fuel such emotions directed toward the 2010 Free Agency or Lebron James' are usually around anger, distrust and resentment towards wealthy people.

Some of my friends couldn't understand why I was so interested in the Lebron James Decision. It was a perfect example of a symptom of lack programming.

The underlying reason people who expressed animosity surrounding the Free Agency and specifically, Lebron, is their underlying animosity toward prosperity.

I enjoy watching athletics, especially someone like Lebron James, because I know I am watching a person who is clearly living out his destiny. 

Whenever we see someone who is larger than life, like Lebron James, Mother Teresa, Princess Diana or Marilyn Monroe we are witnessing an archetype.  An ideal.  A model or symbol of a characteristic of our core being being played out.

That is why we are attracted to them. 

When you see someone like Lebron James or Michael Jordan, their presence transcends their home team. They are beloved outside of the norm.

Last night, I thought Lebron may have made a mistake or been advised poorly when I heard he had not informed the Cleveland Cavaliers before the airing on The Decision on ESPN.

But after hearing Dan Gilbert's response I began to wonder if it might have been an intentional decision.  Maybe Lebron knew what the response was going to be and he and his team chose not to confront it directly.

Either way, I can easily excuse a 25 year old from the mistakes he might have made in his process much easier than the temper tantrum thrown by Gilbert.

There was remorse on Lebron's part.  Not only did he express sadness for leaving the Cavs but even the ESPN announcers knew, from Lebron's body language that he was feeling the pain of the Cavs fans and  team mates.

The response in Cleveland began before The Decision aired.

Hate, fear and anger were being expressed before they even knew if Lebron was coming back. 

It was pre-emptive hate!

Just in case he leaves, I am going to start feeling miserable now!

That is lesson number two. 

Okay, so those who expressed anger, fear and resentment about Lebron leaving Cleveland were eventually proved right.  Lebron chose Miami.

Which by the way, is his absolute right. 

How would you feel if you were treated like Cleveland is treating Lebron if you decided to sell your house, or quit your job or heaven forbid, what if you lost your house to bankruptcy and dis-valued the whole neighborhood.

You make choices for your life based on what is best for you and your family.  You don't have to decide if your neighbor will be okay if you take a new job across the country. 

Why should a professional athlete be any different?

Yes, they sign contracts.  And Lebron fulfilled his contract with flare, dignity, pride, energy and enthusiasm. Why did Cleveland want him back so badly if he is such a horrible guy?

Why did Gilbert want him back so badly if there were so many secrets the public didn't know about him?

He wanted him back for what he had already proven he could do for the community, the team and for Mr. Gilberts bottom line.  If Lebron had been more valuable to him and available to be traded away, don't think it wouldn't happen.

Lebron got a new job.  A great new job. 

And he did it for the greatest reasons of all, to lead a team to the ultimate goal for any professional athlete of winning a championship.

This practice of worrying and investing energy before there is anything to actually worry about is common among those who live in struggle, lack and drama.

Mark Twain wrote: "My life has been full of terrible misfortunes, most of which never happened."

When you worry about the future or regret the past, you are using up the only currency you have, your present moment.  You are using it up on creating more of the same terrible misfortunes.

This brings me to the collective, mob mentality we are witnessing in Cleveland. 

This is a town that has a collective belief that you must struggle to survive.  They don't resonate with the bliss and joy Lebron experiences every time he steps on the court.

Cleveland's collective, mob energy, ensures it will continue to suffer.

For me, I choose to experience joy. I am happy for Lebron and look forward to watching the magic created by The Heat.

I also choose to believe in my hometown, Cleveland.

What do you choose?

Dedicated and in service to your awakening.

Namaste,

Fran
Prosperity Whisperer


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June 19, 2010

Get Clear Welcome

Congratulations and welcome to your shiny, bright, CLEAR self!

I will be sending you a personalized message in the next day or so (depending on when you registered).  Meanwhile, do a little "soul searching" and think about what it is you really want.

We can start out with something small or something big - it's your choice.  If you are experiencing a great deal of lack right now, it may serve you to start out with something that requires less "clearing".

Think about it, and get really really clear.  Play the entire scenario out in your head.,and observe any doubt, questions, flip flopping that comes up.

Write down anything that comes up and put your attention on the doubt.  Let's see if it is a belief to be cleared or if your desire isn't really what you want.

That is a good start.

I will be in touch by email soon.

This is a journey you will never ever forget.  Mark your calendar.  Today is the day your life changed forever!

Namaste,

Fran

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Get clear now…

Contrary to popular teaching, beliefs that are blocking your good can come from your conscious as well as your subconscious.

Popular Law of attraction teachings neglect to talk about the complex belief systems that entangle our "self" and keep joy and prosperity from flowing.

It is my deepest wish for you to experience a life of bliss, abundance and ease.
 
There is a hidden memory or belief complex, usually associated with guilt at the root of your problem.
 
Whatever it is that is keeping you from experiencing what you desire - it may be as simple as a childhood guilt because you didn't want to go to church like you were "supposed to".
 
The root of the root, the thing that keeps the door to your joy and prosperity from swinging wide open, must be released before you will ever experience anything "better" than today.
 
If you've been with me for any length of time you know - without the higher knowledge revealed by a sage - you can't know what is blocking your receiving in any particular occassion.
 
You also know, it is not required to know. 
 
What is required is the clearing.
 
If you haven't received what you think you desire, there is something blocking the doorway - preventing the good from entering.
 
The clearing may need to be done both at a subconscious and conscious level.  When your conscious mind holds onto beliefs, as in a rigid belief in a religious doctrine or political view, there is more clearing to be done than simply working on the subconscious memories.
 
Whenever you find yourself struggling to receive what you think you desire, your two most likely causes are blocks and indecision.
 
If today you find yourself dreaming of a new sports car, only to think tomorrow about all the problems a sports car might bring, like the insurance cost, limited seating or high maintenance costs…
 
you can not receive your sports car.
 
Your indecision will always prevent the materialization of your desire.  You can't get what you want until you know, with certainty what it is and project that desire, unfailingly to the field of awareness.
 
These concepts should not be new to you.
 
How long you wait until you realize the simplicity and ease with which your life can shift is your "free will".
 
If you enjoy the struggle and the story of your victimhood - please continue on as you always have.
 
Forgive my tongue in cheek sarcasm….
 
I know you want to make a difference in your life and in the lives of your family, community and world.
 
I know because you are reading this message.
 
I also know that your continued study is most likely never going to lead you to the life you desire.
 
I know better, because I am the ultimate higher conscious seeker.  Before I made any major breakthroughs I searched, spent, studied, read, purchased, learned, practiced…you name it.
 
Not much changed for over 20 years, except my frustration level.  Oh, and my bank account took a turn for the worse.
 
It seems the more you learn, the more you believe the ultimate truth, but the more frustrated you become because you know it is real….intellectually.
 
But experientially, it hasn't been made real for you.
 
You must do your clearing.  It must be done relentlessly, without flip flopping on your desired outcomes.
 
If you are ready to clear away the old, and are open to receiving something wonderful, I am offering the ultimate clearing tool…but only for the first 5 people who make a decision.
 
I am going to tell you again - I don't play marketing games…my clearing work is incredibly time intensive…that is the only reason for limiting the numbers.  If I could personally clear for every one I would.
 
I am constantly working on  increasing my vital force energy so that I might serve more.
 
Meanwhile, I have never done anything like this before but I am inspired to clear!
 
So, the first 5 people who make a decision to clear their blocks…will get a full 12 months of personalized clearing from me.  That means, once a month, you can bring me a specific issue you have and a desired result and I will clear for you.
 
We will find out what is blocking your receiving and clear for it.
Each and every month we can clear for anything you desire.
 
And I am giving it to you for an amount that is so low, the only reason you wouldn't do it is if you have a block to actually getting good gifts.
 
That is not a joke, you might see the offer and think it something like, it is too much money. 
 
Well, let me give you a free tip right here….
 
if you think changing your life and clearing blocks to receiving the things you think you want isn't worth…$47 /mo- uh, you have a couple little things that might be blocking your prosperity. (you can get clear for as little as $29/mo - see below payment options)
 
Get clear now…
A year of clearing - one time payment (that is about $29/mo), PLUS get a home blessing/clearing as a thank you (a $379 value):

Get Clear Now, monthly plan $47/mo (will continue for 12 months. you can cancel at any time and stop receiving clearing-just cancel at least 3 days prior to next months billing):

Reality is what you believe.  Clearing the beliefs and installing new, empowering beliefs is the path to enlightened living, abundance and joy.If you can't accept your good with this gift, there is no amount of studying that can help you get what you want.  Your gift to yourself is believing you deserve the life you say you want enough to invest $27 a month in IT!.I Love you.Namaste,

Fran
Prosperity Whisperer
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June 12, 2010

The state of enlightenment is…

  • Free to invest in the tiniest kindness
  • Focused on easing the suffering of others
  • Here now
  • The way we are with other beings
  • Aware of the interconnectedness of all
  • Un-attached to the non eternal
  • Freedom from self imposed imprisonment

It is only the un-enlightened life that expereinces suffering.   Get to know the Self that Knows No Limits.

The Eternal Now 12 Week Life Transformational Course will awaken your Evolutionary Being.

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This is not the fake, transcendent state…where you are only in the state for a period of time.  This is about awareness and experience of your absolute being.  This is not a time in meditation where you glimpse infinity.

This is about changing the knowingness within.  It is about awakening your evolutionary Self.

Dedicated and in service to your awakening.

Namaste,

Fran
Prosperity Whisperer
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How much of your precious day do you invest in your empowerment?

Try this little exercise…it's an eye opener.

Each of us is an infinite being with the potential of a god.  We have the opportunity in this lifetime to become a perfect concious being.

We have the potential, right now, to become a blessing, a healer, a manifestor, for the good of all.

Expanding your consciousness to its maximum is your only job.

But how much time do we actually invest in our own conscious evolution?

Even those of us who are intent on raising our consciousness waste so much precious time.  I am horrified at the amount of time I spend focused on the mundane.

Take leave of your defenses and really look at how you are spending your precious time.  It may be a transformational moment for you when you really see what you are focused on.

From the time you wake up until you go to sleep, observe and journal your thoughts. 

Add the time you spend sleeping without giving conscious instructions to your subconscious to work on your conscious development.

How much time are you really investing in the Absolute?  How much time are you investing in the non-eternal?

Be in this world, but not of it.  Savor the expansiveness of this moment.  There is no certainty in this world of the non-eternal.  Only truth will help us when we move beyond this life.

Only truth will help us move beyond the mundane while in this life. Only the investment in our eternal self will benefit us. All else fades away, now or later.

Mind your mind for benefits today and in the eternal.
Dedicated and in service to your awakening.

Namaste,

Fran
Prosperity Whisperer

Changing the inner quality of beliefs is a accomplished through a process of replacing old programming and erroneous beliefs with eternal, transcendent beliefs.

This moment is everything.
In this moment, you can change everything. Join my 12 Week E-Coaching Program to finally experience your freedom.

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June 11, 2010

What is causing all the struggle?

This article is dedicated to all of my friends who are experiencing less than bliss.  For all who are in lack experience….

Your potential is capable of being like your divine source…fulfilling your wishes of happiness.

There is a story I love about a tribal hunter who can not find food to feed his family.  The hunter goes to the local Shaman for advice.

It never occurs to either the Hunter of the Shaman that there is no game.  They focus within the hunter for what may be blocking his ability to see the game or what is perhaps driving the game away.

As silly as it would be for the Hunter to think there is no game "out there", it is silly for us to think there is no money, opportunity, love, respect…. (fill in the blank with what you perceive is missing in your life).

Both the perceived problem and solution is within.

There is equal prosperity for all, including you!

The universe is not keeping any good thing from you.  All of it is energy. 

Receive the blessings that are all around you and allow them to flow through you.  There is no shortage.

You shouldn't fear there isn't enough or you will experience there isn't enough. 

Do not fear the thief, the economy, the other who might take your good from you.

Reside in the space of unlimitedness…

Divine prosperity, abundance, love, passion, security is not reserved for the "lucky" or the "good".

It is there for all who will receive it.

Practice, study, meditation, chanting….are all good and empowering; however, the experience of struggle, pain and lack will not shift significantly unless you release the subconscious erroneous beliefs  that keep these experiences alive.

If you are interested in moving past the beliefs that have been running your life and creating your experience that there is no game out there….please consider my 12 week Eternal Now E-course.

It is a systematic process of installing empowering, enlightening beliefs into your being in an easy format of meditation.

As you begin to do the meditations, you begin to release the feelings of anxiety, you begin to experience prosperity, ease and joy.

The more you do the customized meditations, the more often you will notice your habitual responses to outside stimuli shift.

You offer your world a new response.

Your habitual response to your world is now one that experiences joy and abundance reflected back to you.

And you do it without thinking, just as you now see struggle and lack without thinking.

You offer your world up…you know your perspective is narrow and now you give away your old perspective to the pure potentiality that exists in each moment.

Look for your blessings and you will find them.

Here, if you choose to see it, is a blessing.  The power of love and wisdom is more powerful than anything this world has offered you up until now.  Accept your power now and accept this blessing in the form of a discount offering.


I give you my 12 Week Eternal Now Course as a systematic approach to lay down beliefs that do not serve your desire for prosperity and bliss and I resolve to rejoice with you in your accomplishments and enlightenments.

The teachings you have been studying will come alive for you.

Your life experience is a result of who and what you think you are at a subconscious level. The Eternal Now 12 Week E-Course is custom created for you - to shift your subconscious beliefs to an awareness of your true Self!


Your experience will be your proof!

Liberation from your struggle is easier than you imagine.  Think something differently subconsciously to experience something new in REALITY!  LIBERATION Is yours.

Dedicated and in service to your awakening.

Namaste,

Fran
Prosperity Whisperer
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Have you tried to supplement your income online?

Multiple streams of income are one of the keys to longterm wealth.

In the spiritual evolution community we sometimes hurt ourselves by thinking we are above or beyond doing anything that is not directly related to our spiritual calling.

It is up to you how you think about any experience, opportunity, job, relationship…..anything you do in this life…it is up to you what it means.

That not only means, what you make of the situation - sort of the mindset looking backwards after you have experienced something but more empowering to your spiritual evolution is the intention you put into your actions.

For example, if you are doing work you don't think is fulfilling your purpose - it is only because your intetnion for the work is not aligned with your purpose.

I don't care if you purpose is to be a healer and you are making a living selling cars. You can still be fulfilling your purpose through your current job.

Put your attention on your purpose and infuse it with your intention to be an instrument of that purpose.

One of my purposes is to help relieve suffering and struggling. There are many ways in which I fulfill that purpose and everything I do, is infused with that intention.

It is also my purpose to be a blessing to others through my gifts, including my prosperity. In order to give financially, there must be profits to pull from. In order to give of my time and energy, I must have them in surplus.

The same is true for you. It is not wrong or evil to make money. And it is not wrong or evil to make money in a way that is not directly related to what you think your purpose is.

It is all fulfilling your purpose if you allow it to do so.

So, if there are any of you who have wished for a way to earn residual income while helping others learn how to do the same - find an avenue for that.

I promote other spiritual based programs - if you or anyone else purchase something from a promotion I do, I get paid.

It doesn't cost you any more to purchase the product. It is just the company has made me sort of a "representative" of their product to reach people they might not otherwise reach.

You can do the same thing. It doesn't have to be a spirit based product either. If you are a healer and you have an online presence to attract business, you could promote a legitimate online business that you have used or can endorse with integrity to help others build their business online.

I represent one of the best (not well known outside of internet marketing) marketers in the online world because his work helps so many people build residual businesses online. If you are interested in learning how to make money online from one of, of not the best online marketers in the world, take a look at this (his basic product is only $30 although he will offer you additional products) visit Jo Hon by clicking here.

This is a course on how to make money online as an affiliate.  I know if you have researched online marketing at all you've seen enough of these things to make you want to toss your cookies.

Like I said above, Jo Han is the best.  Most of the products you see today are some sort of knock off of something Jo Han has created years ago.  His stuff is the real deal and along with Rosalind Gardner's, the only affiliate how to products I endorse.

Whatever you choose to do…because whatever you do, including doing nothing, working a job you think you hate…is all a choice you are making.

You may say you have no choice but that is not true-just a story you choose to believe.

Whatever you choose to do - infuse it with your higher intentions and purpose for the greater good and it will serve you well.

Choose to find the low energy in a thing and it will show up for you too.  It is always your choice.

I choose bliss.  I choose to serve my purpose in everything I do.

I love you.

Dedicated and in service to your awakening.

Namaste,

Fran

 

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What worries you today?

What has your attention today?

Is it something someone "did to you"?
Are you anxious or outraged by anothers' behavior?

If you aren't "feeling good" right now, consider what it is that you are allowing to impact your energy and defining your existence.

If you are upset about something someone did that you find rude or offensive, what is it you are really accomplishing?

Sure, you get to be right. And you get something to excuse your lot in life. It is someone else's fault you are miserable right?

I'm sorry for being so bold and focusing on the low energy but as I watched the opening ceremonies of the Fifa World Cup and am reminded of the suffering of a nation and the sacrifices so many have made…my little worries and problems seem silly.

I think of Nelson Mandela and his sacrifice - literally of his life as a political prisoner for 27 years. He continues to give his life in dedication and service to peace, freedom and liberty.

And today, he is mourning the loss of his 13 year old great granddaughter.

What are you worried about today?

Your life is precious and death is at hand. What if these were your final moments? Would your worries of the day be your focus if you knew these were your last thoughts?

Live your life as if it were ending today. Dream as if you will never die.

Every day, every moment is a creation of your destiny.
Who you really are will never die, but will reap the rewards or pay the price for your present moment life.

Now you move worlds with your thoughts - so what type of world are your thoughts creating?

Choose to release small thinkiing and concerns. Imagine yourself to be the person you dream of and hold onto that dream until it manifests in your physical world.

I Love you.

Namaste,
Fran

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June 9, 2010

Sometimes you just have to hit bottom…

Just as with addiction, sometimes we have to get to a place within where what we are doing just isn't good enough anymore.

Call it bottom because it is the place where you refuse to continue doing what you have always been doing and make a decision for change.

Your decision point is unique to you…

You may decide to shift your beliefs at the first sign of struggle or pain or you may need to suffer the same pains for years before you finally decide enough is enough.

So what is your habitual thought pattern that might not be serving your desire for prosperity and higher conscious living?

We talk about this a lot but it bears repeating here, you don't need to know (and can't possibly know) the origin of all your thoughts and beliefs.  You can however, easily identify patterns of beliefs.

Start by witnessing how your body feels.  Your thoughts create emotions.  Those emotions show up in the body as feelings.

Observe your body for signs of anxiety or tension.  If you are free of any pain, even subtle pain, you will feel light, flexible, relaxed and energetic.

If you are fatigued, tight, rigid or nervous then examine the thoughts that were last in your mind.

Were you telling yourself how tired you are?  You may have legitimate need for rest, but it never serves your greater good to tell yourself you are tired.  Instead, reflect on the good work you did for the day and acknowledge the time has come to give your body a rest.

You listen to your body and respond to it appropriately without ever judging the body.  Talk with your body in your mind as if it were a dear friend.  Always feed it uplifting and supportive words.

If you struggle with weight issues, examine how you see yourself.  What you think is reflected in your thoughts and then manifest in your physical body. 

If you want a healthier, vibrant, flexible body, begin by affirming those desires in the words in your head.  Appreciate your body for the wonderous creation it is.  Be thankful for your ability to feel, taste, hear, walk, talk, see…whatever is yours - claim it and praise it.

It is the same with any belief or thought.

If you examined your body and felt tighness in your solar plexus area and found your thoughts had been on something "he" said or "she" did…

Ask yourself if you are ready to release your judgement and need to be right for the sake of your desire for a higher conscious, abundant life.

If you are willing to release your thoughts of judgement - congratulations on hitting bottom. 

It is a wonderful place to be.  Let's celebrate.  I'll dance around the living room if you will!

You really do know you are ready to shift your beliefs when you are able to observe the persistent thought patterns and begin to shorten the length you allow the thoughts to remain.

You may not immediately shift from judgement to complete and total acceptance of what is in an instant.  But you don't have to.

It is enough to begin with the awareness of the habitual thinking that isn't serving you.

You are now free to choose new thoughts.  The more often you choose the new thougths the more likely they are to show up again in the future.

Just like your habitual thoughts of victim hood were not created in a single moment of thought, your new pattern of thinking will require sustained thought. 

Soon you will notice your body feeling good in the midst of circumstances that previously caused you anxiety or anger.  As you shift your attention to your thoughts you will notice you were thinking more empowering thoughts…and you didn't even do it on purpose!

You have made the shift in your subconscious at this point.  You have installed a new way of seeing the world and it is as subconscious as the thoughts that caused you pain in the past.

You may choose to think thoughts of how free you are, or how happy you are.  You might choose to see the "other" as another side of yourself and gently notice the intention behind the criticism.

Maybe your mother or sister-in-law is really interested in your happiness when they do or say something judgemental and you choose to see her heart and not the erroneous belief.

It really is up to you what you see.

The limited perspective you get from your un-intentional response to life may not be serving your greatest good.  Consider your judgements of anothers actions may be based on a view that does not see the entire picture.

I had an opportunity to see how I was holding onto judgement reflected back to me the other day.

Someone asked me about an appointment I had later in the morning.  I responded with a little confusion about when the appointment was.

The other person assumed that meant I didn't have a handle on the meeting, wasn't giving it the appropriate attention or thought I was just plain flaky…I don't really know what she thought.

By the way, as I am moving toward a life of Self referral, it is my intention to be free of the opinion of others, good or bad.  Part of being free of others' opinions means I don't feel the need to explain myself.  I don't have to be right in the other pesons eyes and I certainly don't need to know what the other thinks of me.

What someone else thinks of you is really irrelevant and it is not about you anyway.

What this person did not take into account was that she was only seeing the situation from her limited perspective.  Assuming that I was not totally on top of the appointment was an erroneous judgement.

In my over 25 years of professional sales and project management I have learned to manage my schedule. As I have evolved my consciousness my priorities have shifted but I use a basic strategy to manage tasks, appointments, phone calls and todo's.

I am not going to go into a lesson on time management, or what I call mind management these days…

But what I want to emphasize is that there are infinite possibilities available to us in each present moment. Do not assume your understanding of a particular thing is the only way to see it.

In this case, the phone call was important to me.  Important in the sense that I intended to be on the call.  But not important in a sense that it needed to occupy space in my mind.  There was no preparation required and nothing more was required except that I was available for the call at the appointed time.

I knew the call existed.  I even knew the date and time of the call.  What I didn't keep in my conscious awareness was exactly how it related in space and time to that present moment.

I intentionally chose not to keep it in my present moment awareness.

Instead, I delegated it to a lower priority time management tool…it was in my day planner.

Since I look at my day planner every single morning before I start my day - it was covered.  As a backup plan, it was also in my calendar on my cell phone with a reminder alarm set.

In this case, I had to look at myself and ask where I was judging either myself or others from a limited perspective.

My eyes were open to areas of judgement within myself, including my judgement of the person for questioning me.  The ego is a powerful thing.

We love to tell our stories to make ourselves feel important don't we?  I mean really, doesn't "she" know that I was a project manager, juggling $100's of millions of dollars of business, 1000's of clients and on and on my story was playing in my head. 

What must she think of me to conclude that I can't keep a simple phone call handled.

If I chose to hold onto my justifications and rationalizations and stories, my gut would be all in knots right now and I'd be stuck.

Great story right?  But I'd be stuck in this record playing in my head and an important relationship would suffer. So who really cares about my story anyway?

No one!

I'm the only one attached to it and the only one who is stuck if I can't let go of it. 

Even though I am the only one attached to it and stuck with it - I would not be the only one who suffered because of it.  My energy would be one of anger and resentment.  It would affect everyone and everything I touch.

My world would reflect back to me more situations to be angry and resentful about.

What would the payoff be to hold onto your story?  You get to be right, superior, better than someone else.

Is that what you want?  I asked myself that and the answer is no way.

I want to be in good relationship with this person.  I want to have an empowering energy when we communicate.  I want to see a reflection of understanding, openness and compassion when I look into others' eyes.

You can't get a reflection back of something that isn't there.

What habitual beliefs are you willing to release today?  What empowering beliefs are you willing to install instead?

I know it is tempting to want to be right.  It feels good at some level.  That level is just the ego.  The part of you that thinks it needs to protect you and your story. 

Look to your body.  Think about your story and witness how it feels in your body.  Then take a deep breath in and out and think about loving the other person.  Which one feels better?

What is your ultimate goal with all of your spitual study?  You want to be happy and feel good right?  Even if you think your goal right now is for more money or a better job or a loving relationship - at the core of that desire it is about feeling good or avoiding pain.

Holding onto your need to be right is holding onto pain.  Enough is enough.

I choose gratitude.  I am so thankful for my friend for opening my eyes to areas where I am making decisions and judgements based on my limited perspective of the world.  I choose to be open to infinite possibility.  I am so grateful for this opportunity to grow in awareness.  Thank you. I'm sorry. I love you. Please forgive me.

Dedicated and in service to your awakening.

Namaste,

Fran
Prosperity Whisperer

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June 6, 2010

There is no hurry, but every moment counts.

You are an infinitely continuous being.

In a sense, there is no hurry to evolve your consciousness.  This life and its death is the gateway to rebirth. You are eternally evolving.

This experiential state you think of as you is an opportunity to learn of your true being.  But there are many other experiential states to transcend - so in that respect there is no hurry.

Your current state of evolution is a reflection of the transcendent state of prior existences.  You are only here, interested in this article because you have evolved to a level of awakening that makes it interesting to you.

Therefore, you are ready for the message…

Learning the process of being awake while still in the dream of this life is your reason for being here.  Not for some materialistic gaining of a distinct place as if a King or guru, but for the compassion you develop to help other sentient beings out of their suffering caused by identity with the self.

Living is an opportunity to achieve (so to speak) your highest evolutionary purpose.

When you live with this focus, your life becomes infinitely more present.  Your present moment becomes significantly more important to you.

Your attention to drama and small thinking is reduced when your focus is on the greater evolutionary purpose.

You become a being with no interest in the mundane.

You realize the sense of importance, the preciousness of each decision in each moment for the eternal self at the same time you recognize the emminent end to this life.

These two awakenings open your inner eyes to the importance of focus on serving the higher self.  Suffering is significantly reduced with a higher self focus.

Who would spend the last moments of life argueing over who's job it is to refill the copy paper?

Non-conformist, compassionate, loving beings are not concerned with the status quo.  They are ever aware of the shortness of this existence.  Becoming wise for the sake of the eternal self and to help reduce suffering for those who are still entrenched in the belief of the self.

So, there is no hurry, because you are a never ending being, each moment counts toward your evolution and your future existence.

More than that, the awareness of your true being allows your compassion for others to fuel your rush to enlightenment.  As if you were witnessesing a child drowning - there is no time to delay.

Just as the speed with which you move to the rescue of the child determines the experience of suffering of the child, the speed with which you move toward your enlightenment determines the relief of suffering of all beings in your experience.

Each instant is a piece of the puzzle of your eternal existence.

Be compassionate to the suffering of others.  Knowing their true self, helping them to see their truth, while easing the suffering of their false reality. 

Meet people at the point of their suffering.  Do what will relieve their immediate suffering first.  As Christ healed the ill and fed the hungry before ministering to their soul, have compassion for the suffering of your fellow beings.

Restructure your perception of your life.  Your joy is found in fulfilling the wishes of others.

Dedicated and in service to your awakening.

Namaste,

Fran
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